This will show up my limited electronics skills:
Can I safely connect a ‘feedback’ line from (say) Digital Output 1 to Digital Input 1, which I could then read to confirm the current
digital output status, AND connect a small relay (<100mA) to Output 1 AT THE SAME TIME - would I need to protect it with an em feedback diode?
Doh, if I used a DPDT relay I could use one pole for the control and the other for the feedback!